December, 2010


24
Dec 10

Guy I Care About Commits Suicide In A Dream

The Dream

I recently got back in touch with my first love from high school…. We have been talking for about 4 months .. I enjoy having himback in my life, we are trying to establish what our boundaries are right now and its been a little confusing for me.. So, I had a dream about him and I was looking all over for him and I went to his mom and asked her where he was and she said honey he committed suicide and I just kept crying in my dream and saying but I cant find him, where is he? First of all his mother is in a nursing home and has had alzhiemers for 5 years in real life.. so that kinda freaked me out then the fact that she was telling me he died and I just wouldn’t stop telling her I couldn’t find him… What does that all mean?? Can someone help me with this??? It really scares me cause I don’t get it at all and why on earth would I dream he killed hisself.. I did have a discussion with him a few weeks back and told him he seemed different from the guy I loved back in school and that I was not sure how I felt about him the way he is now…maybe that has something to do with it…

The Interpretation

The dream would appear to be a reflection of your feelings about this former lover or high-school sweetheart having changed in ways that you perceive to be negative.  Seeing him again was clearly a disappointment in some way.

This old flame committing suicide in the dream is a symbol for your projection of him making failed choices in his life.  He changed who he is and you don’t like it.  He symbolically “killed” who he was or who you knew him to be.


23
Dec 10

Dreaming In Red And Black

The Dream

“I have many reoccurring themes and ideas in my dreams. One of them is that my dream is partially or totally in red and black. Sometimes after this happens, I wake up with a feeling of malaise . Does anybody know what this means?”

The Interpretation

The colour red in dreams represents negativity, negative situations, or negative intentions. Bad things are happening.  The colour black in a dream represents imbalance or excess.  If you are having a lot of dreams with both red and black this is often an indicator that you are experiencing a lot of fear in your life.  You may also feel hopeless about finding a solution to a problem that plagues you or have a not of uncertainty about the future.  You may also be experiencing a lot of guilt.

Your dreams may be a sign that it may be a good idea to try speaking to someone about your problems or that you need to get something off your chest.  You may need help confronting something that is holding you back.


21
Dec 10

Dreamed Of My Dad Changing A Car Tire

The Dream

“My father died a couple years ago. The other evening I dreamt he was changing my car tire. We had a tumultuous relationship while he was alive…we had plenty of good and bad moments. What do you think this dream means?”

The Interpretation

To dream of your father represents your conscience, or your ability to make positive choices, or choose between right and wrong. He can also be your projection of him if you have issues with him that need to be dealt with.

To dream of car tires represents your degree of confidence, self-esteem, and the condition of the ego as you pursue goals. Confidence is reflected in how over or under-inflated the tires are.  Spare tires represent thoughts and feelings you have about alternative choices, or backup plans.

The dream appears to be a message that your conscience is allowing you to make changes in your life or to make choices that are encouraging new feelings of confidence to pursue your goals.


21
Dec 10

Recurring Nightmares Of The End Of The World & Fiance Dying

The Dream

“I have had trouble sleeping for over one year now. I have tried many remedies, but none seem to work. For the past four months, I have been having nightmares with the same theme. I have had several apocalypse dreams, as well as dreams where my fiance dies. I have written then all in my journal.

For example, I have had a dream that the world implodes, that a nuclear holocaust occurs, and that the human race takes over a new species of zombies. Vivid dreams about my fiance’s death include him dying in a car accident, being shot to death by an ex-boyfriend, and being terminally ill and committing suicide in front of me.

It is emotionally taxing to have these morbid dreams. I find myself worrying about my fiance every day. I am always worried he is going to die in some freak accident.

How can I stop these from happening?”

The Interpretation

To dream of the end of the world represents fundamental change to your ways of being and thinking. It symbolizes your thoughts or feelings about a dramatic change or situation in life where you don’t know what to do. You may be experiencing anxiety for the future, and there may be a lot of changes, good or bad, that confuse or frustrate you. The dream may indicate trouble dealing with the end of one kind of lifestyle and the beginning of another.

To dream of a nuclear bomb represents an event or life situation that devastates you or sacrifices everything you thought or believed in. Usually to negative thoughts or emotions. A nuclear bomb suggests a dramatic change of events, views, or feelings. Often bringing feelings of a helplessness and loss of control over a situation. Something you thought was important may have left you feel devastated.

Your fiancée is just a dream is probably a symbol for an aspect of yourself or your life that is important to you. Seeing him die in your dreams may be a sign that you feel a powerful sense of loss or failure.

The only way you are going to stop these nightmares is to begin to confront the unwelcome changes occurring your life or facing your fear of these changes.


20
Dec 10

Dreamed I Was A Dragon

The Dream

“Ok so last night I dreamed I was a dragon, attempting to rescue my dragon friends while surrounded by gothic architecture. Somewhat spyro-ish but more badass.”

The Interpretation

Dragons in dreams symbolize very behaviour that is intentionally terrifying.  To be a dragon points to attempt to scare or intimidate other people.


19
Dec 10

Nightmare About Clowns

The Dream

“I’m not sure when my fear of clowns developed. But I have this one dream, always this one dream that I have more often than not.

I’m running up my road to my house, I reach my doorstep and the door is locked. I turn around and I see a clown, walking slowly with an axe. He turns, faces me, then runs as fast as he can twords me. I scream and scream but nothing happends. Its so vivid, and its right in my neighborhood. I recongnize every little detail there is. But the other day, I had a dream that the same clown raped me and killed me. I can’t take having all these bad dreams, because of my other dreams, I hate sleeping at night. Please help.”

The Interpretation

If this fear of clowns isn’t something you are constantly dealing with your in life, then the clowns in the dream have absolutely nothing to do with your fears. In fact, I believe the dream is more focused on a waking life relationship, or situation you are currently experiencing.

To dream of an axe represents an aggressive, crude division or conflict with harsh words or thoughts with no boundaries or restraint. An axe points to a fight or conflict where you have no concern for another person and never want to compromise anything. It’s something you dream when you have a disagreement or fight with someone where you make each other feel like they don’t care about anything at all.

To dream of an evil clown may represent an aspect of your personality that has embarrassed itself or fears embarrassment.

The rape by the clown symbolizes this personality trait you have that is so powerful you can’t control it. Something that you can’t resist, or that life is making incredibly hard to avoid.

I’d take the dreams as messages that you’ve been embarrassed, or fear embarrassment.  And you can’t stand the people or situation that makes you feel powerless to avoid it.


17
Dec 10

Woman Dreams Of Having A Penis

The Dream

“So, there’s a lot to my dream, so I’m not going to write it all here. However, the part that scares me the most is the fact that I had a penis. I told my friend in my room and she laughed at me, then walked away. So I got fascinated with it, and (this is really embarrassing) started to masturbate with my penis. hahah. I remember thinking that the reason I was doing it was because I wanted to see what felt good so I could try it on my boyfriend (who I am very much sexually active with) and I was just plain curious. but it didn’t feel good. I don’t remember being scared or werided out or anything, just curious and fascinated. I think I still had a vagina, but I can’t be sure. Am I a lesbian or something? I’ve never had a dream anything like this before…help!! I’m a 20 yr old female just graduating college even though I’m going back in a year….I just broke off a couple friendships…hope this info helps!!”

The Interpretation

First, let me say that you are not a lesbian.  Being a woman with a penis in a dream just symbolizes your feelings of being powerful.  You most likely just had one or more experiences in life that made you feel more powerful, more in control, and more capable.  You are taking what you want, seizing the day, and not letting anyone get in the way of what you feel is right.

The masturbation just symbolizes your thoughts as you play with this power, or your daydreaming as you imagine yourself using it in your life in other ways.  You are emotionally pleasing yourself to certain thoughts of things you want to experience or have closer to you in life.  You may be too focused on thinking about success and not enough to actually experiencing it for real.

If you just broke off a couple of friendships, it may be possible that you feel more powerful as you walk away from these relationships because you had to assert yourself, or fight with someone before you did.  This may have left you feeling more in control of your life, more mature, or more competent.  Especially if these relationships were with people you thought were incompatible with your life, or toxic to your well being.

Dream Dictionary Search Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=penis
http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=masturbation


17
Dec 10

Dreaming Of My Teeth Falling Out?

The Dream

“I dreamed that I was sitting in my bed because my mouth hurt. When I put my hand to my mouth I found that a tooth was loose. When I touched it, it fell out in my hand. I then run to a mirror to check to see if you can see it when I smile. To my horror, I find that my teeth are grimy and all yellow and green, and all of my back teeth are black…then I woke up.”

The Interpretation

To dream of teeth represents your vitality and self-confidence. If you see your teeth falling out or broken in the dream it represents a loss of power or self-esteem in some area of your life.

To dream of a mirror represents self-refection, seeing yourself for who you really are, or how you may be experiencing yourself in waking life.

Overall, the dream sounds like something in your life has wounded your confidence.  Eventually, something happened in your life that confirmed these insecurities leaving you feeling less powerful than before.


15
Dec 10

Dreamed Of My Parents Dying

The Dream

“What does it mean to see your parents dying in a dream?”

The Interpretation

The dream is possibly a symbolic reflection of your difficulty making choices or your inability to do the right thing.

To dream of your mother represents your intuition or your internal guidance. She is your ability to make decisions based on how something feels, to stay out of trouble before it begins, or how lucky you feel based on coincidences that end in your favor.   If you mother dies in a dream it just means you can’t seem to make long term choices that are helpful, or see negativity down the road in your life so that you can avoid it.  It also means that situations in life start to make you feel unlucky as things just seem to never work out in your favor.

To dream of your father represents your conscience, or your ability to make positive choices, or choose between right and wrong.  For him to die symbolizes moral decay or negativity that just never allows you to do the right thing, or stand up to problems.

Dying in a dream reflects change.  If positive symbols like parents die in a dream it points to your conscience and intuition being overwhelmed by negative life situations or emotional difficulty.

Dream Dictionary Search Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=mother
http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=father


14
Dec 10

Dreamed Of A Beautiful Woman In A Wheat Field

Background

First let me say explain my situation: My wife and I have a bad marriage, due to the fact she has cheated twice and I can not get over it. I have been wanting to leave her but I am staying so far because of my poor job situation (due to the poor economy, being a residential custom home framer sucks right now with little to no work to find) so I am applying for job after job with no luck and fighting for table scraps…So that’s a little bit about myself, on with the dream I need interpreted:

The Dream

“I’m walking through some wheat fields, middle of the day, and I am walking towards this beautiful woman dressed in tight blue jeans, white tank top, and a straw colored cowboy hat. I never hurry my pace, just keep walking until I get right in front of her. She has her head slightly down where I can not make out her face. She always says “I’ve been waiting for you.” and then I wake up at this point every time.

I have been asked by others “If you can’t see the persons face, how do you know shes a woman or a beautiful woman?” – well, I was assuming….. BUT The body was beautiful, curvy, plus the unknown person has breasts and long brunette hair.”

The Interpretation

To see wheat growing in a dream represents hard work you are enduring to earn and keep everything you have. You may have money problems and find yourself struggling to make ends meet.

The faceless beautiful woman you see with the cowboy hat symbolizes a desire for change that you haven’t figured out yet.  You want something else for your life, but haven’t decided what it should be.  It may also be a sign that you know you need to change, but fear the consequences of letting go of your old life.