The dreamer is having problems meeting a woman. They’ve experienced a lot of failed attempts and disappointments. Many of the women they try to get to know already have partners or let him now they have a partner long after he’s gotten to know them. He’s unable to make a woman interested in him.
“I keep having dreams that it’s the first day of high school and I’m dressed in a Japanese school uniform while everyone else is dressed casually. I sit down at a lunch table with my friend who is surrounded by girls. All the girls start to get rude and talk down to me like I’m not good enough.”
High school in dreams reflects anxiety or a deep focus on attaining more power or status. Your concern about proving yourself or developing yourself. This would perfectly reflect your attempts to get a girlfriend or anxiety about not being able to speak to girls effectively. If you keep dreaming about the first day of school it’s most likely reflecting your recurring concern about facing situations where you feel you are not good enough to get a girlfriend or not being respected because you don’t have a girlfriend.
In the dream you are dressed in a school uniform while everyone else is dressed casually because it represents your feelings about yourself being perceived by others as being scared of girls or nervous around women while other guys appear to have no problems at all.
Sitting down at the table with your friend and feeling that all the girls are talking down to you may reflect your feelings about girls not responding to your methods or your feelings that trying to speak to girls is pointless because you are telling yourself that you are not good enough.
Either way, the dream is a sign that you need to focus on developing confidence. If you don’t believe in yourself, that is picked up quickly by women and will become a major hurdle to your goal of getting a girlfriend. Remember, human beings are animals just like the rest of the animal kingdom. Born to face the world and have families. So think of women like female animals that are always testing you to see if your worthy to have children with. If you give off signals of being nervous then that tells the female brain that something wrong with your health or ability to provide for children. Arrogant or cocky men usually have better results with women because they believe in their abilities and project that outwards. If you are projecting weakness or anxiety that tells women that you can’t do the job as a father.
Working out, getting involved in sports, or trying to talk to girls as friends is a good first step developing your confidence. Stop pressuring yourself. Love usually catches you by surprise anyway. If your friends are putting you down or making you feel like a loser for not being a Casa Nova than it may be time to get some new friends.