February, 2012


28
Feb 12

Why Are Dreams About My Dead Husband Always Negative ?

Background Information

The dreamer husband was killed in an accident.

The Dream

“My husband was killed in an accident 18 months ago and I don’t dream about him often but when I do he has always left me for another woman. In my dreams he is alive and leaving me or left me for someone else (nobody I recognise) and it is such a horrible nightmare that I am relieved when I wake up and realise he is only a dream. Sometimes I am even relieved that he is dead so that he cannot be true. We were very close so I really don’t know why i am having this dream other than it is him trying to tell me to move on with my life. Can anyone help?”

The Interpretation

The dream most likely reflects your feeling of abandonment.  It possibly also reflects your fear that in the afterlife he is doing something else.  The cheating in the dream most likely symbolizes your projection of him no longer being with you in life.  He is symbolically cheating on you with death or a new life.

It’s also possible that your husband cheating on you reflects your feelings of abandonment when you do things that he used to be involved with.  The cheating is then a reflection of your feeling that he has moved on and is no longer around to support you the way he used to.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=cheating
http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=husband


28
Feb 12

Dreaming Of My Ex After I Got Married

Background Information

The dreamer is unhappily married and longs to be with their ex-boyfriend.

The Dream

“i keep getting these dreams where i’m with my ex boyfriend and so happy.
i got married in jan but i dont love my husband and never did even before we got married. i just didnt have the courage to call off the marriage.  before my marriage and after i keep dreaming alot about my ex and i still deeply love him.  what is my dream trying to indicate me?”

The Interpretation

I think your ex represents your desire and longing for him. You desire to have him, but don’t believe you ever can.  You are happy with your ex in your dream possibly because it reflects how content  you are desiring him or daydreaming about a future you’d like to have with him.  You may be too content with how things are.

The dreams are possibly a sign that you either need to stop desiring him and move on, or that you need to confront your husband with the truth.  Either way you shouldn’t be spending your time fantasizing about someone that you may never have a real relationship with, especially when you’re married.  I think you should spend some time making a serious decision about what you really want.  It sounds like a divorce may be in your best interest in the long term.


25
Feb 12

I Keep Having End Of School Dreams

Background Information

The dreamer is nervous about going to a new school and feels bad having to leave behind all their old friends.

The Dream

“So the past couple weeks I’ve been having dreams about the end of school which ended on the 24th (may). Now I’m moving up to a new school and in my dreams it’s always the last day of school and it’s always different scenerios. Like in the one last night a younger girl had come up and said she would miss me, but I barely knew her name. In one a couple nights ago, all the leaving graders were having a party at school and I couldn’t find my real friends. I am nervous about moving up into a new school and I will miss my friends from my old school, but I don’t know why I would have so many dreams about the last day.  Help? Please and thank you in advanced.”

The Interpretation

The dream seems to reflect your feelings about giving up your old friends and your anxiety about going to a new school.  Not knowing the one girl’s name in the first dream possibly represents your feeling that you regret not having more time to get to know some of the people at your old school.  You may even feel a growing sense of distance between yourself and your friends.

The second dream where you experience a party and being unable to find your “real friends” may be pointing to your feelings about not being able to have any of your old friends supporting you as you prepare to go to your new school.  You may be too busy with your planning to socialize with them.


25
Feb 12

Dreams Of Pumpkins And Bats

Background Information

The dreamer is flirting with a guy that is already dating someone. She is getting mixed signals from him about the status of their relationship and whether he honestly has feelings for her.

The Dream

“Well i basically had the weirdest dream last night i dreamt that while i looked out my bedroom window which is on the second and top floor of my home i saw pumpkins start to fall from a tree it started slowly as if someone pelted the first one and then another and then it just started to come down harder and quicker from this tree people who were standing around started to run to pick up pumpkins but i just stayed where i was watching the chaos from my window. i asked my neighbour Junior as he was passing with two pumpkins in his hands if he could bring me one and he said huh uh but i never got a pumpkin then i woke up. Does anyone know what this may mean or symbolize? .

I dreamt a bat last night, a friend was showing me his pet bat it was black, not dark or jet black, just a fading black and the bat came and started flying all around me inside my clothes and out and all around me again I just stood there as if I was accustom to that and I was laughing; eventually he flew away and my friend started to ask where he gone then I woke up. Do anyone know what this may mean?”

The Interpretation

I believe both of your dreams are focused on your relationship issues with this man you’re seeing.

Pumpkins in dreams symbolize feelings about a situation that’s coming to an end. An area of your life is coming to a close. Time feels like it’s running out. If all of these pumpkins are being tossed from the tree and you ask for a pumpkin it sounds like you want confirmation from this guy about whether this guy is ever going to leave his current girlfriend. You ask for a pumpkin to symbolize your wish for closure or to know 100% that it will never happen.

The bat dream symbolizes mixed messages. Like a promise that never comes true. They reflect the beliefs you have that you’ll get this guy in the end, but also the realization that it never happens. Your heart feels a promise from this guy, but he comes through with it.

The dreams are a sign that you probably need to accept the fact that it’s not going to work with this guy and that you should look for absolute proof of his intentions before you spend anymore time hoping he’ll come around. Let him show you he wants you by actually being with you instead of just hoping it will happen.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=pumpkin
http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=bats


21
Feb 12

Dreamed Of The First Day Of School

Background Information

The dreamer is having problems meeting a woman.  They’ve experienced a lot of failed attempts and disappointments.  Many of the women they try to get to know already have partners or let him now they have a partner long after he’s gotten to know them.  He’s unable to make a woman interested in him.

The Dream

“From what I can remember of the dream, I meet a couple of male friends outside of scohol on our first day of high school. I am a girl wearing a blue japanese school uniform, much like I did in middle school, but covered it in black sweats. I then notice everyone else is dressed casually, and one of my friends points out that the rules changed starting this year to allow regular clothes to school. I feel a bit out of place, but figure I’ll be fine if I keep my sweats on.

One of my friends sits down at a lunch table with a few girls sitting there, so I decide to join him. Before I get a chance to sit, another girl takes the seat I was going to use, then another girl takes the last seat, and all the girls start talking down to me, like I’m not good enough to be in their presence.

The scene changes. I’m a differnt person, male this time. I don’t seem to be having the same issues as the girl I was previously. I don’t remember much more vividly, but I did eventually see the girl I was when the dream started, and she was now wearing powder blue jeans with a black jacket. She seemed to be lounging on grass among some more friends.

In waking like, I am male, and have been out of college for probably 5 years. More than anything, I’m curious what the change of character means, but I appreciate any interpretation to the dream.”

The Interpretation

The dream seems to reflect your feelings about how stagnant your life is and how unsuccessful you are in achieving certain goals.

High school in a dream symbolizes anxieties or “caring about what you are thinking” while you attempt to become more powerful or resourceful. Meaning you want more respect, money, power, or success and are very concerned about it. The contrast in dress with your friends may symbolize how they think you are too conservative or too serious. Perhaps you need to lighten up a bit.

Being the first day of school may symbolize how you just started worrying about this issue or concerning yourself with it.  Alternatively, it may reflect how you are measuring yourself and your capabilities with others.

Being a girl may reflect how feelings of being screwed over. You are metaphorically “taking it” and feel like the loser in a situation.

Your change character perspectives probably to reflect you first experiencing yourself losing and then becoming aware of yourself having been the loser in hindsight.

The black track pants in the dream may symbolize how you are too comfortable being the nice guy.  You may be too comfortable never making a serious move.  Alternatively, the black track pants may reflect your fear of engaging woman that you really like.

If the dream is reflecting your feelings about being unsuccessful with women or work it may be a sign that you need to change. Trying new things or giving up certain habits that haven’t worked out may be in order best.  Whatever you do it’s probably best to change your approach to women and to find ways to build confidence in yourself.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=high+school


19
Feb 12

Dreamed About A White Weasel

Background Information

The dreamer lost their job to another person with better qualifications.

The Dream

“I dreamt that a white weasel was attempting to bite a wound i recently had in the non dream world, and as it went for it again, i put my curled finger in it’s jaws and it tried biting me but i felt little pain. any idea what’s going on?”

The Interpretation

The dream sounds like a symbol for your feelings about this man taking your job. The weasal biting your hand symbolizes this theft of the job attacking your ability to do what you want. Hands in dreams symbolizes capability. So any attack on your hands points to you feeling unable to function or carry yourself as you’d like to.

The white color of the weasel may actually reflect the theft of your job being based on genuine intentions. Meaning he stole your job, but perhaps it was because the employer needed better qualifications or because he has something you’d don’t.

The dream appears to mostly reflect your feelings that this job replacement was unfair or that the company did something that you believe to be “low.”

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=weasel
http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=white


18
Feb 12

I Dreamed That I Kissed The Grim Reaper

Background Information

The dreamer has decided what they want to do career wise after school is finished.

The Dream

“I had a dream i kissed death. A person I was kissing a person I don’t like very much and they turned into the grim reaper.  Any thoughts?”

The Interpretation

Death (act of dying not the character) in dreams usually reflects change. The Grim Reaper is probably a symbol for your drive to find a suitable career path that is carrying away your uncertainty for the future.

The dream is probably a reflection of the fact you finally decided on what you wanted to do after school.  The person you don’t like possibly represents an aspect of your personality that wishes to avoid being a loser or unsuccessful.  He mayYou kiss him at first to reflect your concern and drive to explore career possibilities to avoid being someone that’s unhappy with a crappy job.  He turns into death to reflect this drive of yours to find a career path giving you certainty about your future and carrying away your fear of not being successful.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=grim+reaper


18
Feb 12

Dream Of Objects Coming Out Of My Computer

Background Information

The dreamer has been offered a job that was already offered to them at an earlier time.

The Dream

“I am checking some stuff on internet and somehow a bag full of electronic gadgets comes out of the computer. The stuff is excessive and even though it looks all shiny and new, it’s actually old stuff that’s repainted to make it appear new. I am convinced that that is a scam, I would be asked to pay for this stuff that I never intended to have and returning all the stuff would be a hastle.”

The Interpretation

White is dreams symbolizes balance or purity. If this dream is pointing to these job offers then the objects being painted white may reflect this job offer being made with good intentions or being sold to you as a good idea. It may even reflect your view of the second person offering the job as being a bit fake but wanting you think they have good intentions.

Either way the dream seems to be reflecting your feelings about being unsatisfied with what is being offered and possibly that you feel obligated. May be a sign that you need to assert yourself more.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=white


16
Feb 12

Dreams Of Gliding And Never Getting Far Off The Ground

Background Information

The dreamer is living at home with their parents who are financially supporting them.  They wish to get out on their own so that they could have a lot more independence.

The Dream

“There’s one element of my dreams that seem quite common, almost to the point where it’s starting to feel like something I am capable of in the real world, even though I know in my mind it’s physically impossible. Such a strange feeling it is, I suppose the closest thing I could relate it to is feeling like you could single handedly lift a car up.

In my dreams, I often have the ability to glide without wings, at high speeds sometimes. I start off running normally, then when I’m moving fast enough, I pick my feet off of the ground and glide a few inches over it. Last night I was going faster than some cars beside me, so I can estimate I was going faster than 30 mph at least.

It’s never more than a few inches or maybe a foot off of the ground, which is why I dont really couple it with flying and it’s normal connotations.

I want to know the significance of gliding in this fashion, and possibly the significance of it feeling like I should be able to do this in the waking world. If anyone could offer some insight, it would be greatly appreciated.”

The Interpretation

If you can’t get a job and are being supported by your parents then the dream may be reflecting this situation. The low ground flying may reflect the limited freedom to do as you wish while being supported by your parents while lacking the ability to completely do as you wish because you lack a job to pay for it.

The low flying then represents your view of yourself “playing” or enjoying yourself with your parents support as you live at home and being unable to fully rise to the level of freedom you really desire with increased income. You can’t get up high in the sky in the dream because you can’t afford to really do what you want in real life or “soar” to a higher level of freedom or enjoyment.

The dream is probably just a sign that you’re not totally satisfied with your living situation. Perhaps, you need to step up efforts to get a job or just need to focus more school knowing that things will get better in the future.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=flying


16
Feb 12

Dream Of White Swan

Background Information

The dreamer is trying to avoid a friend from their past that they don’t like any more.  They’ve defriended them on Facebook.

The Dream

“This white swan was following me,i was trying to avoid it by moving around it but it kept following me Lol.  There was other people there too trying to help me,but that swan still kept following me, then i saw myself throwing rocks at fish, wierd.”

The Interpretation

Your avoidance of the swan may reflect your wish to avoid friendship with your old friend.  The swan could reflect the ideal intentions of this old friend wanting to be in your life.  Something you clearly want to avoid.  Throwing stones in the dream could reflect your hostile feelings to this friend, talking about them behind their back, or defriending them on Facebook with the knowledge that they might notice it.

Dream Dictionary Results

http://www.dreambible.com/search.php?q=swan