The dreamer has recently had a date with a guy that didn’t “get” the signal that she liked him. The date didn’t work out.
“I was on a bus yelling at a guy.”
The dream most likely represents your frustration and disappointment that the date with this guy didn’t work out and possible frustrations that meeting someone whom you can have a serious relationship with is taking a lot longer than you want. Buses in dreams usually reflect an unpleasant or unbearable experience with having to be patient. In your case that is probably a symbol for the dating process or having to wait for Mr.Right.
The dream may be a sign that you are too focused on getting a relationship and not enough on forming one. You may be frustrating yourself with why love don’t just happen to meet your life schedule.
“My girlfriend recently acquired a journal with satanic depictions and writing. Ever since she tried to decode them shes had nightmares of deformed people wanting to take something she cares about from her. Help would be appreciated.”
It sounds like your girlfriend may be a little sensitive or paranoid about “evil spirits” or negative influences coming from the journal. These deformed people taking away something special from her is probably just a reflection of her belief that the negativity of the journal is cursing her or permanently cutting her off from God. A feeling that if she looked at the journal even once she her soul is gone. A normal thing to feel for young people who play around with negative books or symbolism. I recall in my own youth I felt something similar when a friend was staying at my house with a copy of the Necronomicon. I never felt at peace until the book was out of the house. The nightmares are probably a sign that your girlfriend may benefit from putting the journal away for a while or by getting rid of it.
The dreamer was having a big fight with their girlfriend and fear a breakup was coming.
“All I remembered was all the water was on fire… all of it, wherever I looked. ‘Then I woke up”
Water in dreams usually represents uncertainty or negative emotions. Going into water reflects confrontation with that uncertainty. Fire usually reflects issues you are consumed by or that you feel are totally destructive. If the water is on fire it probably points to how impossible you feel confronting your girlfriend feels while you want to speak to her and deal with the issue that caused your fight. She is metaphorically “burning” all your chances to deal with her.
The dream is a sign that you are so concerned with needing to talk to her that you are turning her off the idea reconciling. Women are sensitive, so I’d recommend you give her some time to cool off. Let the fire in her heart burn out before you try to confront her.
“My husband was killed in a car accident 18 months ago and I don’t dream about him often. When I do he has always left me for another woman.”
The dream most likely reflects your feeling of abandonment. It possibly also reflects your fear that in the afterlife he is doing something else. The cheating in the dream most likely symbolizes your projection of him enjoying his new life without you.
It’s also possible that your husband cheating on you reflects your feelings of abandonment when you do things that he used to be involved with. The constant reminders that he is no longer with you.
“I keep dreaming about being with my ex-boyfriend and being really happy. I got married in January, but I don’t love my husband and never did…even before we got married. I just didn’t have the courage to call off the wedding. Both before my marriage and after I keep dreaming about my ex and I still deeply love him. What are my dreams indicating?”
I think your ex represents your desire and longing for him. You are happy with your ex in your dream possibly because it reflects how content you are desiring him or daydreaming about a future you’d like to have with him. The dreams are a sign that you are too content with putting up with this unhappy marriage while you wish for something better.
My advice is to stop desiring your ex and move on or confront your husband with the truth and end this marriage. Either way, you shouldn’t be spending your time fantasizing about someone that you may never have a real relationship with…especially when you’re married. I think you should spend some time making a serious decision about what you really want. It sounds like a divorce may be in your best interest in the long term.
The dreamer is flirting with a guy that is already in a relationship. She is getting mixed signals from this guy about whether he honestly has feelings for her.
“I dreamed that I saw pumpkins being tossed out of a tree. I asked a friend to pick me up a pumpkin, but they never did. Then I dreamed of a bat flying all around me and getting in my clothes.”
I believe that both of your dreams are focused on your relationship issues with this man you’re flirting with. There is a need for you to see closure with this man’s other relationship that you are annoyed about not seeing. I will run through the symbolism so you can see it for yourself.
Trees in dreams represents some area of our life that is established or difficult to remove. In this case this reflects the relationship you see this man having with his current girlfriend. The pumpkins being tossed out of the tree represents your perception of closure or stories you are hearing about the end of this man’s relationship. You never see your friend pick you up a pumpkin because it represents you never feeling respect from this guy when it comes to getting a straight answer about his current relationship ending. You never get the closure you want.
The bat dream symbolizes mixed messages. Your heart feels a promise from this guy, but he never comes through with it. The bat is in your clothes because this man’s failure to come through and break up with his current girlfriend is driving you crazy or frustrating you.
The dreams are a sign that you probably need to demand absolute proof of this man’s intentions before you spend anymore time hoping he’ll come around. Let him show you that he wants you by actually being with you instead of just hoping it will happen. If you can’t get that then it may be time to move on.
The dreamer is having problems meeting a woman. They’ve experienced a lot of failed attempts and disappointments. Many of the women they try to get to know already have partners or let him now they have a partner long after he’s gotten to know them. He’s unable to make a woman interested in him.
“I keep having dreams that it’s the first day of high school and I’m dressed in a Japanese school uniform while everyone else is dressed casually. I sit down at a lunch table with my friend who is surrounded by girls. All the girls start to get rude and talk down to me like I’m not good enough.”
High school in dreams reflects anxiety or a deep focus on attaining more power or status. Your concern about proving yourself or developing yourself. This would perfectly reflect your attempts to get a girlfriend or anxiety about not being able to speak to girls effectively. If you keep dreaming about the first day of school it’s most likely reflecting your recurring concern about facing situations where you feel you are not good enough to get a girlfriend or not being respected because you don’t have a girlfriend.
In the dream you are dressed in a school uniform while everyone else is dressed casually because it represents your feelings about yourself being perceived by others as being scared of girls or nervous around women while other guys appear to have no problems at all.
Sitting down at the table with your friend and feeling that all the girls are talking down to you may reflect your feelings about girls not responding to your methods or your feelings that trying to speak to girls is pointless because you are telling yourself that you are not good enough.
Either way, the dream is a sign that you need to focus on developing confidence. If you don’t believe in yourself, that is picked up quickly by women and will become a major hurdle to your goal of getting a girlfriend. Remember, human beings are animals just like the rest of the animal kingdom. Born to face the world and have families. So think of women like female animals that are always testing you to see if your worthy to have children with. If you give off signals of being nervous then that tells the female brain that something wrong with your health or ability to provide for children. Arrogant or cocky men usually have better results with women because they believe in their abilities and project that outwards. If you are projecting weakness or anxiety that tells women that you can’t do the job as a father.
Working out, getting involved in sports, or trying to talk to girls as friends is a good first step developing your confidence. Stop pressuring yourself. Love usually catches you by surprise anyway. If your friends are putting you down or making you feel like a loser for not being a Casa Nova than it may be time to get some new friends.